[sgtspector]

When I was in the service I had a friend who's grandfather was in his late 80's. Before he enlisted and when he went home on leave he would always sneak the old guy out to a bar. He wanted a couple of belts. Not to get stumbling drunk. My friend said they were wrong to deny him. They were afraid it was bad for him. His attitude was "How much longer am I going to live, let me enjoy myself a little." We havent seen each other in years so I don't know how much longer his grandfather lived but he was really grateful to my friend. And my friend was happy to have his company. I guess my point is maybe she needs a little excitement in her life. If she's able maybe take her out or to a racetrack or something and let her place a bet. Something she may have never done before.