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I've had to deal with the same thing.(My older parents and relatives) The main thing is to stimulate their environment in small increments that don't overwhelm. Keep in mind that depression doesn't mean just "sad". The tough part of it is the other aspect of it which is reduced functionability. It's a "chicken or the egg" kind of thing but stimulation is key to increase their response. The smallest "choices" they can make, in the process, are actually big steps and need to be done gradually at first. Sense of regaining control (while accepting the things they can't) is slow and varies from person to person. (Sounds like you are doing an awesome job). Don't beat yourself up. Enjoy the small improvements (They're big). My mom is so much easier than my dad! They both respond in different ways but they do improve! Enjoy the small things.(When it comes to loved ones there is no such thing).
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