Hmm...maybe that's the fix glc was talking about...
Anyway, you can move the pins on the connector so that they're next to each other like a 2 pin connector. Using a needle, look on the side of the connector with the openings...you can see the pins in the slots. There's a little flap that holds the pin in and if you lift if with the needle, you can pull the pin out and move it.
Since you said the AUX_LED is supposed to duplicate the regular PWR LED, I'm beginning to wonder if the LED is defective.

Cricket