View Full Version : thanksgiving gift!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
eshort
11-22-2000, 09:53 PM
Last September I shipped one of my beloved notebooks to Compaq Inc in Tennessee for warranty service. Per Compaq's direction-shipment done via Aurborne express in a carton supplied by compaq.
The notebook never returned to meerries to Airborne and Compaq revealed it had been shipped back to me at the correct address.
Telephone calls to airborne revealed it had been received and signatured at my office. I checked the manifest and the signatory was noone in my agency--thus--i assumed my comput had been stolen by a person signing a false name.
so i filed an insurance claim (homeowners) and insurance sent me a brand new Compaq PIII-650..arriving 11/21.
On returning from lunch at work today (11-22), there was a phone message asking me to come across the street to another office to "pick up a package misrouted"--thinking this was a magazine ordered earlier this week, i ran across only to fine-------u guessd it-------my beloved computer
sitting on the receptionist's desk...she said she found it under the desk!!
It had been sitting there 7 weeks..noone noticed until today!!!--truely amazing!!..the box is 2 feetX18"X7inches--hardly easy to misplace??? the receptionist said she was a "temp" only there 4 days--yet she found the comput!!
so- I have my beloved compaq back but must return the new
PIII!!
bailey
11-22-2000, 10:24 PM
no keep it, it's already paid for, at least till they ask for it. if you don't want it, send it to me.
M. A. Dockter
11-23-2000, 06:57 AM
I'm thinking along the same lines. What they don't know, won't hurt them. If you they ask, say you found the laptop yesterday :). Maybe Ron could give us some legal insite into the situation.
HAL9000
11-23-2000, 07:46 AM
I agree... what's done is done, nobody will know the difference.
StunGunz
11-23-2000, 09:30 AM
I'm with the crowd here on this one. How will they ever know you have it? You didn't sign for it, the other secretary did.
Carl Price
11-23-2000, 09:48 AM
It's true they will never know, but guess what <b>you will</b>. Keep it if you are unprincipled, and have no morals and would steal if you had the chance, otherwise let them know. Chances are they might let you keep it anyway, since it is already paid for.
PS. I'm highly surprised at the reaction of the other folks on this subject.
StunGunz
11-23-2000, 10:22 AM
I don't know what world your from, but here where I live, Insurance companies are just giant legal theives. They've already written off the computer as a loss which means probably any return will be off their books, and never recorded. If this were an indivdual Carl, I would agree, but its not. Its a faceless corporation whos greed has it asking for rate hikes beyond inflation rates, every year.
The way I see it, the new computer is payment for the inconvienience caused by the shipping companies lax delivery practices, and the emotional stress caused when the computer went missing.
LawyerRon
11-23-2000, 10:33 AM
Everyone knows the answer to this one.
HAL9000
11-23-2000, 11:05 AM
I don't see it as a lack of morals. I see it as "that's life". If I were to lose my wallet, yes I would like it back, but not for one moment would I expect the money to still be in it. Once something is gone, it's finders keepers.
If you really want to see a lack of morals, I used to work in a night club for almost 4 years, I invite anyone to come with me for a night behind the scenes to see what really goes on in a bar. You think you know, but until you work in one, you have yet to scratch the surface on how low things can really get.
[Edited by HAL9000 on 11-23-2000 at 06:00 PM]
kraken
11-23-2000, 12:36 PM
Insurance companies are those people who deduct amounts from payouts when your home is destroyed by fire and you have a chimney left standing.
The moral implications are not with the insurance company but with your own criminality. (you check the serial number and find it filed off) "This is not my computer" he cried. But what to do with the ill gotten gains. Return it to the insurance company who may never trust a claim form from him again. Or relieve the guilt by finding a deserving person who may never own such a splendid piece of equipment because of the economics of capitalistic greed mongers.
Torn by the need to get away with it and the creeping guilt that keeps you awake at night. Despair at the thought of capture " I must get rid of the evidence" he thought.
Suddenly a boy in a wheelchair with a cup that says give to the blind appears. In a moment of clarity that strikes with such rarity, you put the compac in his lap and without a word you walk away.
[Edited by kraken on 11-23-2000 at 02:38 PM]
eshort
11-23-2000, 01:51 PM
I guess im od fashioned but i called my agenct yesturday and reported the finding of the "lost" computer--
i had also filed a claim against airborne who promply said it wasnt their problem9!) and forwarded it to Compaq....
that was 3 weeks ago--nothing heard yet----
ill let u guys know if the ins co lets me keep the unit (i seriously doubt it)--but--at least ill get my $250 deductible back (which i will use to buy another notebook to play with--im SO addicted!!!)
HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO ALL
Ill be in Miami Fla 11/24 for 7 days--will hook into pcmech from there----if had digital camera wld send pix like Hackercarlos.
The in surance co shld pay for my next three trips as i saved them $2900!!!
kraken
11-23-2000, 02:48 PM
Eshort has shown that he is law abiding and has a conscience that tells him to "do the right thing".
Its a pity that this thread was for a deed done and not for one that is to happen.
Its a pity that we work for the common good (law) in all our deeds. The moral judgement of Eshort is only shown by his questioning of his own deed and what is the common good.
That questioning makes him truly human.
LawyerRon we are searching, if you know the answer and not just an answer, enlighten.
While the common consences says that eshort should be greedy, the law told him to "do the right thing"
We all know the law is an ass for those with financing.
Its a small thing in the big picture, but many small things make for large beaches.
To whose pleasure do we strive, ours or others or both.
Eshort
I would have given the extra away or just recouped my financial loss over the matter.
Just started for a charity organisation that gives computers to those in need and sells low cost for those that can afford
LawyerRon
11-23-2000, 05:00 PM
Sorry,
This one's too obvious.
cobra
11-23-2000, 11:16 PM
eshort,
tell them all hello for me in Miami, and that I don't miss them, except for good old mom.....
and good move on the laptop...
StuartW
11-23-2000, 11:57 PM
Fraudulent claims mean that insurance companies have to raise their premiums. In effect,apart from theft from the company,a fraudulent claim is in a roundabout way stealing from the rest of us.Then of course,there is the moral consideration.
eshort
11-25-2000, 07:28 AM
heelo from Miami--very turbulent plane ride down (trough stirring up atmosphere along east coast)
weather is raining and 75 degrees/dewpoint 72...left Boston at 17 degress!! rain supposed to cease by Sunday.
M. A. Dockter
11-25-2000, 09:32 AM
There is snow on the ground here...I hope you die of heat exhaustion! ;) (Just joking)
AlwaysUp
12-09-2000, 04:24 AM
BRAVO, CarlPrice!
Jenni
12-09-2000, 09:18 AM
StuartW, I agree that eshort did the right thing, and it is what i would have done in his situation. However, I hate the "if you steal from the ins. co. (or the software one for that matter, same arguement), they raise premiums and we all pay for it" arguement. Well, if I have payed for it already, then in my opinion eshort should keep it. Same way with an illegal copy of Windows. If I'm paying for them by way of Microsoft charging me way too much for mine, then they are paid for, and not illegal, just unregisterable.
StuartW
12-09-2000, 09:35 AM
Jenni - I am afraid I must disagree with you. If a company (insurance or software) is losing money because of fraud, then they will raise product prices to keep the profit margin (and shareholders) happy.In other words, the honest purchaser will have to pay more than they should have.I would agree that if you have paid high insurance premiums for a number of years, and the opportunity that eshort found himself in arises,the temptation would be to get back what you have paid in. The phrase two wrongs don't make a right comes to mind.
Jenni
12-09-2000, 09:47 AM
So in other words, we honest people are just screwed to keep profit margins for the insurance company! But, I knew that anyway. My husband has health insurance through his job. When we had our first child, after insurance had paid it's part, we still owed about $3,000. I know someone who was pregnant at the same time as I was, using the same doctor and the same hospital. She has no insurance and worked out a prepay arrangement with the hospital. She paid $1,500 total! And there was no difference in our deliveries.
troysvihl
12-09-2000, 12:21 PM
bravo eshort. it's always refreshing when you run across people that still have convictions
as for the rest of you, i've got to say i'm a bit surprised. some people can justify their way into anything i guess.
lawyerRon - what is the correct decision? i'm fairly sure you would have said to return it, but after the reading the other posts on this string, i wouldn't be very surprised if you meant for eshort to keep it
The proper, moral, and ethical thing to do is call your insurance agent for advice. If he tells you to keep it, so be it. It's their decision.
LawyerRon
12-09-2000, 02:35 PM
And if he tells you to keep it, make sure you get that in writing, in case he denies the conversation later.
A simple fax memo will suffice.
StuartW
12-10-2000, 02:35 AM
I am fascinated by some of the replies, and wonder if it is something to do with culture/Nationality.Personally my conscience would never allow me to keep something that was not mine.
Here is an example. If you were in a branch of a very large department store that had just announced record profits, and you saw a very poor old lady, and a youth in expensive clothes both shoplifting,would you report either,both or none - and why?
kraken
12-10-2000, 03:27 AM
StuartW
Life makes cynics of us all. There are injustices and injustices.
If it is at all possible to thumb my nose at huge multinationals then I will in any way I can. Premium increases are inevitable as the "me first generation" (and there have been a few) will take any advantage they can get and the poor honest suckers (yes I'm one) will always loose out.
On your extended question.
1. If I was an employee I would have to report them both as it would be a duty under my employment contract (question of trust).
2. If I was not an employee I might report the youth but only if they showed a bad attitude (pis**d me off).
StuartW
12-10-2000, 03:54 AM
Originally posted by kraken
2. If I was not an employee I might report the youth but only if they showed a bad attitude (pis**d me off). [/B]
In making this decision,you have appointed yourself as 'judge,jury and executioner'
Just suppose the old lady was a very sucessful and rich shoplifter who never got caught because she always dressed very poorly; and that the youth was stealing food for his mother, who had sacrificed everything to give her son good clothing.
Until you have all the facts, you can never make an informed decision, which is why most countries set up a legal system to determine whether laws have been broken or not, and then to apply leniency if extenuating circumstances allowed.
In the example I gave, your choice is really between reporting both, or turning away and ignoring the crime(which possibly makes you just as guilty).
kraken
12-10-2000, 04:17 AM
StuartW
You are guilty of your own answer. My reply concerning the youth was if they pis**d me off. It was not that THEY pissed me off, it was IF.
IF the little old lady did the same I would consider it in the same light.
Using judgement is something that can only be learned by experience and not from addendums to questions posed.
Yes the little old lady could be rich as hell and just scamming us all, if she in anyway pis**d me off I would have to take that into account.
I will appoint myself judge jury and executioner in the fact of reporting, it is up to the system to do the real judging based on all the facts. My judgment is merely for my response, I cannot send anyone to prison or lop off their heads.
As to being guilty of the crime, I would have to be judged as knowing, not merely suspecting. It is a complex web that is spun when assuming someone did something. A witness cannot be forced to give evidence unless by a court order, in which case there must be evidence or suspicion of your witness to the said crime.
As it was, you did not have all the facts concerning my character and my previous response was very broad, as a detailed response can take a long time to compose.
Yet you judged me.
Each situation will have its own nuances, simple questions like the one you posed can only have simple answers.
Also your original question stated that she WAS a very poor old lady. You should have said (what seemed to be a poor old lady) as this is a totaly new set of perceptions.
[Edited by kraken on 12-10-2000 at 06:24 AM]
StuartW
12-10-2000, 05:00 AM
Kraken - Sorry if you mis-understood my reply. In no way was I attempting to judge you by your response to my question.Of course each individual will respond to a given situation in different ways, depending on their circumstances.
What I was interested in was how each Nationality would react to the witness of a crime.I suspect that in a very material society, most people would turn away and say good luck to the criminal, since they were stealing from a big business, which is often perceived to be crooks themselves.
In an Islam country,where Religion and criminal code are inextricably linked, the reaction would be very different.
I take your point that in reporting,or not, a crime you are acting as 'judge and jury'; but then law and order can only succeeed by the will of the people.If a law is bad, people will ignore it.
kraken
12-10-2000, 05:16 AM
I in no way misundestood your reply. I was pointing out the inadaquacies of the question that was originally posed.
These type of simplistic questions remind me of a study group. they are usually young and have little understanding of the complexities that life offers.
My furore was in the addendum, not taking an answer based on the question posed and analysing it from that basis, leads to misunderstandings that form prejudices.
An example that I can give is a question that asks the person to think outside of the square.
Nine dots formed into a square, Q: Use five straight lines to connect every dot (forgive me if this is a bit awry as it was a long time ago). The answer focused on extending the lines beyond the boundries of the square. I used curved lines to create an answer as this was not disallowed in the question. My answer was wrong according to the instructor, I pointed out that the question did not disallow curved lines but asked for only five straight ones. The instructor could not think outside of the question and therefore outside of the square. The instuctor was therefore constrained by their own boundries set by the (teachers copy) question.
When boundries are set, they must be done in a complete way so as no misunderstanding of the question can come into play. The question should have read using five straight line ONLY, connect all the dots.
kraken
12-10-2000, 05:30 AM
Stuart
[QUOTE]What I was interested in was how each Nationality would react to the witness of a crime.I suspect that in a very material society, most people would turn away and say good luck to the criminal, since they were stealing from a big business, which is often perceived to be crooks themselves. [quote]
by stating that you suspect most people would turn away and say good luck is based on an emotive response and not a factual one based on research. Who designates what is a criminal act, stealing a loaf of bread is a criminal act, but if it was to feed starving infants, is it? Yet you designate them to be criminal regardless. Those of us with less are often percieved to be criminal if we want more without slaving ourselves to the same big business. Life is not about economics, it is about ourselves and how we approach it.
The most important factor is intent. Why did someone do the things they did? That is the true meaning of criminal.
StuartW
12-10-2000, 05:35 AM
Originally posted by kraken
My furore was in the addendum, not taking an answer based on the question posed and analysing it from that basis, leads to misunderstandings that form prejudices.
[/B]
I accept that I was at fault here;perhaps I was trying to be a little too clever with my response.
Your answer to my original - simple- question, that you would report the youth if he p****d you off, I find an interesting response to the witness of a crime.
[Edited by StuartW on 12-10-2000 at 07:39 AM]
troysvihl
12-10-2000, 06:28 AM
i think there's a whole world of difference between someone keeping a computer he shouldn't and reporting someone else that has commited a crime. Not reporting someone else's crime isn't the same thing as being a crook yourself. The best way to live is by example. Trying to force others to live moralistically is a waste of limited resources.
btw kraken - i gotta disagree that life isn't about economics. economics effects almost every area of our lives and is probably the most important thing in this world.
kraken
12-10-2000, 06:51 AM
StuartW
Simple
don't mess with me and I won't mess with you
kraken
12-10-2000, 06:53 AM
Troysvil
Economics plays a part in everyones lives. However that by which you are judged is not the wads in your pocket it is the heart that beats.
StuartW
12-10-2000, 07:01 AM
Originally posted by kraken
StuartW
Simple
don't mess with me and I won't mess with you
Surely this is not a personal threat against myself. Exactly what do you mean?
kraken
12-10-2000, 08:13 AM
It refers to the pis**d off statement.
If you (the thief) don't bother me in any way, shape or form, I will not bother you.
Many things can pis* me off, this arguement is NOT one of them.
It is easy to misinterpret, that is the point. Always be clear and concise with your arguements and go into as much detail as does not cloud the issue.
I will not ever personally threaten anyone who does not threaten me first. So your percieved threat is a misnomer. I should have been more clear.
AlwaysUp
12-10-2000, 08:35 AM
Crap, guys! How did we get so far off the topic? Many differing opinions here, but I stand on the already stated side of the fence....I could not, in any way, for any reason; justify keeping something I was aware had not been paid for. I don't know any of you who would honestly consider giving your goods or services away, except maybe as a donation....I believe it would be a streeeetch to believe rationalizing a scenario whereby keeping it would be anything other than WRONG. My 2 cents.
kraken
12-11-2000, 07:15 AM
Alwaysup
If you had read all the posts, you would have noticed that Stuartw posted a question relating to the original post in search of opinions.
Silly me, I replied. The response from StuartW added more info to the original theoretical situation. My replies have been to educate Stuart not to use theoretical questions and then change the circumstances because of a reply.
Stuart graciously admitted his over-enthusiasm.
This thread was done with weeks ago, but I could not refuse the challenge to refute.
Your stance is admirable.
StuartW
12-11-2000, 12:17 PM
Originally posted by kraken
The response from StuartW added more info to the original theoretical situation. My replies have been to educate Stuart not to use theoretical questions and then change the circumstances because of a reply.
In my defence, much of my daytime work involves setting up theoretical situations, and then changing parameters to see what response I get. I am afraid I sometimes can't get out of this 'work mode' when having a general discussion.
LawyerRon
12-11-2000, 12:44 PM
Stuart,
Don't get me started.
StuartW
12-11-2000, 02:04 PM
?
bailey
12-11-2000, 02:24 PM
so what is the bottom line here did he call the insurance co or what??
who has the laptop now??
kraken
12-12-2000, 08:26 AM
Bailey
Eshort called his insurance company and told them of the find. We still do not know of the outcome of this.
jessho
12-13-2000, 08:45 AM
All persons ought to endeavor to follow what is right, and not what is established.
- Aristotle
eshort
12-23-2000, 11:25 AM
very interesting replies!!!
I called insurance agenct 11/23...i received a call about 10 days later from the insurance company saying i had to return the computer...
i returned the unit (with tears in my eyes) to the insurance co--i bety the claims rep gets a bonus as MY honesty saved her company over $3000 9PS- they even sent me a copy of Office 2000 Professional which i also had to return)..
what got me was: I asked the claims rep if i could keep the machine anopther few days cuase the "found" one has to go back (!!!) for re-repair--and she said "NO"
\
great reward for honesty huhhh!!!!!!!!!
[Edited by eshort on 12-23-2000 at 12:29 PM]
Jenni
12-23-2000, 11:40 AM
Being that you did what I would have done, the right thing, if I were in your position, I would be MAD! After being burgalarized of several thousand dollars worth of stuff and getting a check for $47.91 from my insurance company, I told them that I would most definitely NOT be renewing my policy. It is great that your insurance company bought you a new laptop to begin with. I wonder who gets it. Surely Compaq doesn't want it back. So some insurance co. bigwig probably got a new toy for Christmas. Personally I think insurance is nothing but a big rip off anyway.
kraken
12-23-2000, 11:40 AM
Sounds like you would have been better off never finding the lost item.
It is drummed into us from an early age that honesty is the best policy. Most economically challenged people that I know are of the honest variety, while those of some means, are always looking for ways to get ahead, by any methods at their disposal. (personal experience)
Honesty is the best policy, most of the time, but not always.
kraken
12-23-2000, 11:43 AM
Jenni
Wheres the honesty in your situation. Did the insurance co honestly give you what your policy stated you should get or was there some "fine print" that got them off the hook.
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